I don't think Xander has had that epiphany yet, and he's two years older than Jav. Or if it has worked it out he didn't feel it worth mentioning to me.

Then again, I'm still working it out myself. I'm still sometimes surprised by things he knows that I don't think he should. I often find myself saying, "How do you know about that?" Like it's a huge surprise that he has friends and the ability to watch every single video on YouTube, so he's bound to pick things up on his own that I haven't taught him specifically.

Parenthood is weird.